Support parents as partners in the child’s care: ask what is hardest to manage, what support they already have, and what would make day-to-day care easier; needs can change as a child’s condition and family circumstances change NICE CKS. For children with cerebral palsy, encourage parents to seek a formal carer’s assessment of their own needs, including physical and mental health, and to register as a carer with their GP NICE CKS.
Make care practical and coordinated. Discuss needs such as equipment or home adaptations, help with administering treatment, respite, education support and financial assistance, and help families find the relevant services NICE CKS. For families managing complex or chronic conditions, support coordination across healthcare, education and social care, since fragmented services and unclear responsibilities can leave parents carrying the burden of arranging care (Herr et al., 2026): "One has to beg and….
Build parents’ confidence and support the child’s voice. Use clear, age-appropriate language, invite the child to share concerns and preferences, and give them time to respond; supportive, direct communication can encourage participation, whereas adults dominating the conversation may limit it (Alharbi et al., 2026): Communication Str…. Help parents facilitate the child’s involvement—for example, by encouraging them to answer or ask questions—while recognising that the appropriate level of involvement varies with age, development, emotional state and family context (Alharbi et al., 2026): Communication Str….
Attend to emotional wellbeing and coping. Regularly discuss the emotional and psychological wellbeing of both child and parents, particularly at diagnosis, deterioration, changes in personal circumstances or changes in care or education NICE CKS. Parents and children may need support with distress and coping, and sometimes specialist psychological input NICE CKS. In crisis or after an acute admission, strengthen caregiver capacity through communication, support and monitoring guidance, while connecting families with appropriate post-discharge psychosocial, school and community support (Shamsi and Hashemi N., 2026): Children's….
Offer ongoing, tailored information and review. Provide information from an appropriately expert professional that is relevant to the child and family; for young people with cerebral palsy this may include puberty, relationships, sexuality and future parenting NICE CKS. For expectant and new parents, signpost NHS and other relevant parent information and support resources NICE CKS.
Key References
- NICE CKS: Cerebral palsy
- NICE CKS: Antenatal care - uncomplicated pregnancy
- NICE CKS: End of life care in children
- (Shamsi and Hashemi N., 2026): Children's Resilience in Crisis Settings: Experiences of Mothers and Paediatric Intensive Care Nurses.
- (Alharbi et al., 2026): Communication Strategies to Improve Child Participation in Triadic Consultations Within Healthcare Settings: A Scoping Review.
- (Herr et al., 2026): "One has to beg and fight for everything" - a qualitative study on patient journeys of children with chronic conditions in Germany.