What are the key indicators of domestic violence and abuse that I should look for during a patient consultation?

Guideline-aligned answer with reasoning, red flags and references. Clinically reviewed by Dr Kola Tytler MBBS CertHE MBA MRCGP.

Posted: 16 August 2025Updated: 16 August 2025 Guideline-Aligned (High Confidence) Clinically Reviewed
Dr Kola Tytler MBBS CertHE MBA MRCGPClinical Lead • iatroX

During a patient consultation, key indicators of domestic violence and abuse to look for include:

  • Physical injuries that are inconsistent with the explanation provided, or recurrent injuries . For example, injuries that are more than expected from a reported fall may suggest someone else caused them .
  • Behavioural and emotional indicators, which can include signs of distress or changes in behaviour . These may sometimes be linked to past trauma, including domestic violence .
  • Symptoms or concerns linked to stressful relationships or violence at home . Patients may present with symptoms that they attribute to, or that could be triggered by, such events .
  • Expressions of fear or feeling unsafe in their relationship or at home . This can be identified by asking direct questions such as, 'Do you feel safe at home?' or 'Is there anything that worries you about your relationship?' .
  • Evidence of different forms of abuse, including physical, sexual, psychological, or financial abuse, especially when perpetrated by someone personally connected to the patient .

To help identify these indicators, it is crucial to:

  • Ensure privacy: Allow the person to make a disclosure alone in private, without any third parties present ,.
  • Ask sensitively: Use kind, sensitive questioning and gender-neutral terms like 'partner/ex-partner' ,.
  • Utilise open and direct questions: Consider open questions like 'How are things at home?' or 'We know violence at home can be a problem, is there anyone who is hurting you?' . Direct questions such as 'Does anyone make you feel afraid?' can also be effective .
  • Consider routine enquiry: In certain services, such as antenatal, postnatal, sexual health, alcohol or drug misuse, and mental health, asking about domestic abuse should be a routine part of good clinical practice, even if no specific indicators are immediately apparent .

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