How can I counsel patients on the risk of transmission of genital herpes to their partners?

Guideline-aligned answer with reasoning, red flags and references. Clinically reviewed by Dr Kola Tytler MBBS CertHE MBA MRCGP.

Posted: 16 August 2025Updated: 16 August 2025 Guideline-Aligned (High Confidence) Clinically Reviewed
Dr Kola Tytler MBBS CertHE MBA MRCGPClinical Lead • iatroX

When counseling patients about the risk of transmitting genital herpes to their sexual partners, it is important to advise them on measures to minimise infection transmission .

Patients should be counselled to abstain from all sexual activity, including non-penetrative and oro-genital sex, if they have visible lesions or experience prodromal symptoms, until the lesions have completely cleared . It is crucial to explain that transmission can occur even when there are no symptoms, a process known as 'asymptomatic shedding', although the risk is higher when a person is symptomatic .

Regarding barrier methods, advise that when used consistently and correctly, male condoms may reduce the risk of future transmission, but they cannot prevent it completely . Transmission is still possible through close skin contact or contact with infected secretions during foreplay .

Patients can be reassured that a first episode of genital herpes does not necessarily indicate a recent infection, as transmission can occur from an asymptomatic partner years into a monogamous relationship . Additionally, herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) infection may have spread from other body areas, such as the lips or fingers . Educational interventions are important for the prevention of herpes simplex virus transmission .

Partner notification is a key aspect of counselling. Patients diagnosed with a sexually transmitted infection (STI) should be advised about the importance and benefits of partner notification, understanding that sex partners may be infected even if asymptomatic, and the risk of reinfection . Encourage them to engage in partner notification and discuss various methods to help them decide how to inform their partners . If a patient feels unable to tell their sex partners or is struggling with their diagnosis, they should be referred to specialist sexual health services for more support with partner notification . Professionals with expertise in contact tracing and counselling should carry out partner notification on behalf of a person with an STI .

For patients with genital herpes who have a new or not knowingly infected sexual partner, HSV screening (for example, using HSV type-specific serology) may be appropriate to assess the risk of HSV acquisition, depending on specialist advice .

Special consideration is needed for pregnant partners: there is a risk of neonatal transmission if a pregnant woman has a first episode of genital herpes, particularly in the third trimester . Consistent use of condoms is advised for any sexual partner who is pregnant and seronegative, especially in the third trimester, to reduce the risk of transmission . While the risk of neonatal transmission is low with recurrent episodes, even if lesions are present at delivery, pregnant women should inform a healthcare professional immediately if they are or become pregnant .

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